In just over a month and a half I have the trial for joint custody. A year and a half ago I separated from my ex and the house that is privative of mine (I bought it 6 years before getting married) has been given provisionally to my ex and my daughter apart from giving her a salary every month, etc. .
Well, my exsuegra (who is a widow) who has a fantastic penthouse in the center of the city, has gone to live at home with her daughter and granddaughter. He has not asked me for permission or the Judge in the court order that the house is provisionally for the use and enjoyment of my daughter and the person who has custody.
Could you claim a rent? Could you ask for the extinction of the use of the house?
Now it turns out that they are with two good flats and I have to go back to my parents' house almost an hour from the center of the city.
Is this normal?
This is the host ...
On top of who lives in my house and I can not use the house I have to pay:
Monthly more than € 500 mortgage
More than € 600 per year in life and home insurance
More than € 450 of IBI
More than € 60 per month from the Community of Owners, because although the Judge has demanded that he pay it, he does not do it because he is not the owner and my lawyer says that I should pay for it and then claim it in court
A salary of € 500 to her every month as contribution to the charges of marriage
Use my house, my storage room and my parking space- use of common areas of the community
And now he puts his mother ... USE TWO HOUSES
In this situation I have been almost 2 years
Last year, fifteen days before the trial of joint custody, he files two complaints against me for the crime of sexual abuse against my daughter to prevent the trial from being held. The judge put me as precautionary measures six months without seeing my daughter, without communicating with her and with a restraining order. After 6 months of real suffering the Judge realizes that everything is false and that all the reports of forensic doctors, gynecologists, pediatricians and psychologists say so forcefully. And they send samples of my daughter's tissues to a laboratory to conclude that everything was false. After 6 months I return to the visitation regime with my daughter.
And in two weeks he puts me back three more complaints for the crime of sexual abuse against my daughter that have already been filed by the judge. It is the same Judge who asks the Civil Court for the use and victimization of the minor by the mother. He also asks me to request the measures of art.158CC and to file a criminal complaint.
Above my ex does not pass part of the tests of the psychosocial team.
Who repairs me the damage they have done to my daughter and me during these six months? Who pays me for all the damage they are doing to me?