My experience with the so-called Gender Violence Law

Well, as I get bored and I can not sleep, I'm going to tell you my experience with the LVG

The thread has no political overtones, vote what you want, I simply tell you my experience of how an unjust law can affect anyone, even those who believe that he and his partner are the happiest and that only happens to them. others.

I will try to be as close to the reality of how it happened, well billet is going.

This happened 4 years ago already, my partner and I have always been good together we have been together for 14 years and we have a cry some silly discussion we had as everyone but never gets the thing over and we always end up giving each other the reason .

Until 6 years ago my partner had a health problem, nothing serious but very painful so he took all kinds of medication including morphine patches to soothe the pains. In spite of all that medication I could not get rid of the pain, so I was very depressed, I drank a lot and mixing it with the medication was a time bomb.

I told him to stop drinking that the drugs were not going to take effect, but he did not care until he told me that his doctor told him that if that relaxed him and helped him to forget about the pain that he did. Well you imagine life with a depressed person with pain is very difficult did not do anything at home was out of work and spent all day or drinking or sleeping at any time, it did not matter day that at night, just rose to the 4 o'clock in the morning and a litrona was herded, the dream had him changed daytime and he was awake at night.

DAY OF THE FACT

It was a Friday morning in January that I had taken the day off because at work they owed me several days and I used to take Friday to do the long weekend and go out there.
That day it had rained, we had a dog with 4 puppies in the garden at home, because when I got up and went to the kitchen it was all muddy and pissed because I had allowed the puppies to enter without cleaning their feet and that seemed like a dump if you tell him glasses without washing plates and cans of beer like for a wedding, the panorama was bleak. There was also a half-empty carton of red wine that had just been drunk.

Conversation:

Me: fuck X you have the kitchen made a shit, I do not plan to clean it so you put the dogs without cleaning them before?
She: are you calling me a bitch?
Me: no, I'm telling you that this is a shit and that you do not have any care and then I have to clean everything, be a little careful please.

She began to cry and passed in front of me who was in the door pushing me to pass and went into the service, shouting that she could not take it anymore, that she was going to telephone some psychologists whose number had been given to her in the hospital. When I heard this, I feared the worst, because I heard that I was telling them that we were arguing and that it was not right for her and that I had pushed her, which was totally false, when she left the kitchen she hit me because I did not It took time to get away from everything when I saw that she was coming like a crazy woman to leave.

Well after that, everything settled down, cleaned the mess and made the food. After 2 hours of the call the house bell rings, I already feared the worst.

-Policia, open us.
-Yeah sure.

2 plainclothes police officers appear to remember that some violence against women.

-Police1 (the most asshole): What happened here?
-I nothing.
-Police 2 (the less asshole): his wife?
-Yo: She's lying in bed with my son.
-Police 1: Can you call her?
-Yo: X, you know the police are here.
-She: Why? I did not call the police.
-Police 1: We have been called from the psychological cabinet because of an issue of violence that has happened?
-She: We have not discussed anything because a subject (she starts crying like a cupcake) has pushed me.
-Yo: but what do you say?
-Policia1 to Policia2: She took me to another room that I'm going to talk to her about.
- I: that I have not pushed her that has clashed with me when I was going to leave, I have retired.

After a while, Police 1 comes back and tells the Police 2: Hey, I've talked to her and she does not want to denounce even though I've insisted.
Police 2: What do we do then?
Police 1: In these cases I do not complicate the jail and the judge decides I do not get wet at all.
Police 1: Come you have to accompany us to the police station is a moment and then you will leave in a couple of hours.
She: No, she does not go, but she has done nothing to me, if you take her I throw myself out the window.
Police 1: Calm down, let's call the Samur to be treated.
She: That has not done anything to me fuck.

Total called and came the toilets and the mother of my wife whom I called so that she would not stay alone.
Police 1: Do not worry, we're not going to handcuff you so the neighbors do not see you.
Me: I sweat what the neighbors think I have done absolutely nothing.
Police 1 (talking on the phone): we take the subject, if it seems that he has assumed it and does not oppose any resistance or problem.

POLICE STATION

Taking a statement I did not say anything, they gave me a paper to sign that said I had been arrested for gender violence or at home I do not remember. As I was already tired firm because they told me it was simple formality.
The deal with the police officers of the police station was the best, the guys saying that if they had had a couple's argument that they were putadon they had partners who had been arrested for that and they knew for sure that they had not done anything.

DUNGEON

I had luck stopping some bulgaros who lived in the street fucking and as there was no more site put with me, the smell that beat the sons of bitches was to vomit in fact the police passed from time to time with an air freshener down the hall of dungeons fumigating everything, and as the dungeons were in the basement and there was a fucking window outside the smell was nauseating, nor could I taste the fucking dinner they gave us, something pre-cooked I do not remember now they had to choose a couple of things, over the Bulgarians kept coming up to me, I was about to get involved with them because I was going to the other corner because I did not smell them, they must have thought I was afraid of them or something.

Total that day they told me that I would have to wait for the night since I did not have time to go to the court, on the other hand to the Bulgarians if I gave them time because they took them out, it would be the subject of different courts.

The next day my lawyer came, that if the subject already knew that there were many complaints because women denounced everything and that my case was the clearest I had, as soon as I saw the judge on the street. He asked that they release me that he would present me in court, but he did not go inside.

After spending all Saturday in the dungeon alone and then in the company of a guy who had bundled up with others who were in the cell opposite and curiously released around 12 at night while I rotted there.

Nothing Sunday come for me, I thought it would be the court but no, they took me to the Detention Center which is where they take all the prisoners in Madrid and then from there take them to the corresponding court the deal with these police was worse some fucking pimps, we went in the back of the van handcuffed without a safety belt at full speed with the sirens on and falling like sacks, I have to say that of the 8 that we were in the van I was the only Spaniard, in fact even the others thought that I was not either, because they said the Spaniards do not do this to them.

DETENTION CENTER

We spent the night to go in the morning to the court of Violence against Women, there in each cell we were at least 20 smelled of shit that pulled back, we slept on the floor because the mats had been picked up by the first ones that arrived and as They were very thin, some of them took it 2. To me, the truth was that I was sweating, I supported myself sitting against the wall, thinking "what the hell am I doing here". It was also impossible to sleep because a crazy woman was screaming every bit.

COURT

As there was no place in the van to me and another took us in a patrol car so I avoid other bruises, we came to the court and put us about 12 in a fucking dungeon with no windows or furniture and an iron door that does not I had bars, the claustrophobia that entered me was cojonuda almost gave me something.
Also there was the only Spanish of at least 10.

After spending 2 hours or so they took me to talk to my lawyer, he told me that nothing was happening, he read me a statement saying that I had recognized that I had insulted and pushed him, when I read this flipe, I told him that I had not I recognized nothing, and she told me that she had signed it (eye on what you sign, that there are no blank spaces because they can get you mixed up) I put on a bad milk that you shit.

He told me to calm down that the judge did not see me nervous or violent, he told me to take refuge in the right not to testify.

The judge came in and as my partner had not reported and I did not declare he told me that I could go home that already dictated sentence, to leave my couple was waiting for me saying that they were all bastards who had gone to the police station to say that They let me go and they had not listened to her and they had not let her see me.

The sentence was acquittal because my partner filed a letter with the court clerk saying that he had not assaulted or insulted him and that the police had acted on their own account without taking his opinion into account.

More than 48 hours in the dungeon for doing nothing that good law.

And with this I finish if you have some question for here I will be and but tomorrow I go billet that I have marked to be 4 in the morning hehe.